Having a baby is one of the best gifts a couple can receive. A future mom sees a double line in a home pregnancy test, and when it is finally confirmed by her doctor, she should be overjoyed.
Pregnancy isn’t always easy. Wives often have a lot of worries and discomforts, both big and small. That’s why it’s so important for husbands to be there for their wives and give them plenty of attention. This way, the husband can help guide and protect their baby, and make sure that the mother stays healthy and happy.
Here’s a quick list of “dos and don’ts” for future fathers:
Dos
1. Make her smile every day Remember, she is carrying a baby in her womb and that requires a lot of effort. She may be feeling a lot of physical discomfort, so it’s important to remind her of the reasons to keep smiling. Let her know that you are there for her and that you support her through this tough time.
2. Serve her. It is a bad idea to put your partner through strenuous work beyond simple household chores, so it is best if you lend a hand and help out instead. Not only will it make her feel less stressed, but she will be sure to appreciate your efforts and be happy to see you taking some of the load off.
3. Do not forget to compliment her. Women are very self-conscious about their appearance, especially when their stomachs start to swell. This can make them feel insecure and down. Once in a while, remind her that she is more beautiful than ever.
4. Provide for her needs. Although this may not be the best time to take on any new challenges that might take you away from home too much, it’s still possible to make it work with a little bit of extra effort and communication. Pregnancy is a very emotionally needy time for most women, and it helps if the husband or partner can understand this need and be supportive. If you are expecting, try to plan your business trips or work schedule around your pregnancy so that you’re not away from home more than necessary and can still get the rest and emotional support you need from your partner.
5. Talk about the baby. It may not be the most natural thing for a dad to do, but talking about the color of your baby’s room, the name, and the toys that they should buy while your wife is still pregnant is a great way to show her how excited you are about becoming a father. It’s a way for her to feel like she’s not in this alone and that you’re just as invested in everything as she is.
Don’ts
1. Never tell her that she is fat. Being pregnant comes with a lot of changes, both physically and emotionally. It can be difficult for a woman to come to terms with her new body, especially when she is constantly being bombarded with images of what the “perfect” pregnant body looks like. It’s important to be supportive and encourage your loved one to do what is best for them – in this case, going on walks together. This is a safe form of exercise that will help them bond with their baby and release some stress. Let’s walk together and forget about trying to slim down, because pregnancy is a beautiful time that should be enjoyed!
2. Do not make her do stressful activities. Even if your partner or friend thinks cooking is a simple task, it’s best to try and persuade them to let you do the cooking instead. You don’t want them to be stressed out, right? Plus, it’ll give you a chance to show off your amazing culinary skills!
3. Never leave her alone. No one can predict when an emergency will happen, but being close to your pregnant partner can give you a sense of security. In late pregnancy, it’s best to be by her side as much as possible in case something happens. If you can’t be with her all the time, try to be close by, so you can get to her quickly if she needs help.
4. Do not fight with her. It’s not uncommon for disagreements to happen between spouses, but it’s important to remember that arguing will only make things worse for both parties involved – especially if children are involved. In this case, it would be best to let your wife have the final say and agree to disagree. It’s not worth stressing her out or making her angry, especially when she’s pregnant.
The arrival of an angel baby is a unforgettable day for any woman, however the subsequent months can be some of the hardest in her life. Make sure you’re there to help and support her through it. Wishing you a happy pregnancy!
